Manifesting Begins Within
“If you don’t work through your stuff, complete the mission you came here to accomplish, you will never truly manifest the life you desire – not consistently and sustainably.”
I have been fully immersed in creating the ideal relationship, consciously, and for myself, one that doesn’t look like manipulating someone else into being the perfect match for me, but by changing myself and my inward (and so outward) expression of self to attract the ideal partner to me.
What do I mean by that?
Our bodies are a roadmap to our experience in this lifetime but we have forgotten how to read the signs and directions that are constantly calling for our attention. Our bodies generate a feeling (energy) to which we assign an emotion (anger, sadness, fear) and then look outside to our external environment to find an explanation for. Equally, if something occurs in our world that causes a feeling, we assign an emotion and blame that person or circumstance for why we feel the way we do. We then try to change that outside influence to alter the feeling our body has generated. All this is happening in every second of every day, and for the most part it is completely unconscious.
The reason we continue to make the same mistakes and repeat the same patterns over and over is because we are trying to manipulate something or someone else in order to change how we feel. That is an impossible task and will only result in more of the same being presented to us as a reflection of what we need to change within ourselves.
But what if I told you that by learning how to read the signals (feelings) the body is generating, and working with them at the source, we are able to completely alter our life experience and create the life we desire from a conscious rather than unconscious place.
This is not speculation, this is something I have learned and implemented in my own life with incredible results. Now I’m not saying I have the perfect, ideal partner, not yet anyway, but with every experience that I consciously put myself into, I am working with the feelings that occur within myself, which in turn is changing who I attract into my life and so too my experiences with them.
This doesn’t just apply to romantic relationships either – this is just an area of my life I am currently working on – it can be utilised within families, careers, homes, other types of relationships, life purpose…anything that you might be stuck on and seeking a lasting resolution for.
But here’s the kicker and where the truth about creating the life you desire (manifesting) gets sticky and is misunderstood by most: In order to truly and lastingly change your current circumstances, you MUST go inside and feel all the feels, especially the really uncomfortable ones, in order to move the stuck energy that is creating the feeling in the first place, and that usually begins the process of you reacting in a way that ultimately blocks your progress. Most people chase the highs that get them into the resonance of attracting what they desire – BUT if you can’t sustain that high, which most people can’t because the little feelings of doubt and discomfort soon start niggling away at them, then what began as a running jump towards the desired outcome quickly becomes an exhausted crawl, likely followed by defeat. Sound familiar?
Do not despair, there is a solution and it’s so simple that no one thinks of it.
It starts like this:
If we had been taught as children that our bodies are a perfectly designed system that is constantly sending us signals as to which direction to take, and that each signal (movement of energy/feeling) is calling us inside to where we need to focus (‘Where your attention goes, energy flows’). And that if we felt a feeling, rather than go outside of ourselves for the answer, we went inside and poured all our loving attention into that place, and asked what is it that you are telling me. And we breathed and intended the movement of the energy, and allowed the feelings to arise and gently released them without fear, and we had lovingly stayed until the space was clear and flowing… If we had done this right from the start then we wouldn’t have pushed the feelings down and away because we didn’t like them, we wouldn’t have directed our attention outside of ourselves and away from our bodies, and we wouldn’t be suffering now as a result.
It’s never too late to change our way of being:
The great thing about this whole life experience of ours is that we always have a chance to choose differently, to take an alternative direction, it’s never too late. Just because we weren’t taught all this stuff when we were children doesn’t mean we can’t learn it now. However, it’s a process not a quick fix. It’s a lifetime of unlearning and relearning, and like anything, it takes time… 12 Steps, to be precise!
